I would go with the cold dead hands one.
I think DC will take over as the modding standard. There are so many limitations in FRUA, even with all the alterations that can be made. With Bioware dumping AD&D and not putting a Toolset in any more Dragon Age products (last I heard), there isn't a lot of choice for people to mod with. NWN1 and NWN2 both use 3-d modelling which also limits what you can do. DC allows creatures you could never make in FRUA, more spells, etc. Most of the FRUA community will become the DC community if it hasn't already. I still like making FRUA then converting it to DC.